Gaining serenity
- Frantisek Strouhal
- Jan 26
- 2 min read
Updated: Jan 27
The concept of compassion originates from the Latin roots com and pati, which means "to suffer with." It involves empathizing with and sharing the suffering of others, a fundamental aspect of our humanity. How can we have compassion for the suffering of others without feeling overwhelmed, depleted, or burnt out?
This is where serenity comes into play - it acts as an inner shock absorber, allowing us to feel the pain of others without being consumed by it. With serenity, we can fully open ourselves to the suffering of others.
Faced with the immense suffering in the world, it's easy to feel a sense of despair and helplessness. We may question whether our efforts to make a difference are enough. However, even seemingly small actions can have a significant impact on someone's life.
By considering the people around us, both those we know well and those we don't, we can identify opportunities to extend a helping hand. This applies not only to humans–but also to the well-being of animals.
Taking action is essential, as it can ease feelings of hopelessness and empower us to make a tangible difference. It's essential to reflect on our past and current efforts to help others, acknowledging the positive ripple effect they have had in the world, both seen and unseen. While it's true that there is still an abundance of suffering, recognizing the impact of our actions will help us maintain an open heart and continue our compassionate endeavours.
Compassion
To truly grasp compassion,
you must first comprehend loss and experience
the swift dissolution of destiny,
like honey melting away in southern tea.
In order to understand the void
between realms of compassion,
you must release what you
guarded and collected so meticulously.
Before you experience the uplifting significance of compassion
you must journey where the destitute in torn rags
lies deceased by the dumpster in the back alley.
You must understand how this can be you,
how this destitute too was someone
who traversed through life with hopes and dreams
and the divine breath that held him alive.
To truly appreciate the value of compassion,
one must first forge a bond with pain,
You must rise with pain,
and talk to it till your words
grasp the string of all pains,
and understand the magnitude of the suffering.
Then and only then would compassion have any meaning for you,
only compassion that is as boundless as the sea,
only compassion that raises its head
from countless mortals of the world to say,
"It is me you have been searching for,"
and then walks with you through the journey called life
like a faithful friend.
By Frantisek Strouhal and Chantal Robert
Poem from Inspirations: Art Embracing Awareness 2
Cover image © Ray Bilcliff
Gaining Serenity
It's really tough for this 'hot-wired' senior, constantly self-energized towards excesses -- even if only one ***holic tendency at a time -- to simply imagine the words Serenity & Compassion being used in the same sentence as his name. Thank God for Friends encouraging me to just Contemplate these Words.